Far too often, I hear guys complaining about how so and so is a "pretty boy". Yesterday, I had three different girls telling me how hot I was, one of whom actually yanked on my shirt to get my attention. And today, a girl was telling me about how her friends thought that I looked like a model. Seeing that it isn't the first time I heard the whole "model" thing, I thought it was time for another post on looks. Why write another post? I mean, who gives a shit that some narcissistic guy has girls saying that he looks like a model? I'll tell you why: my face is nothing more than a 7. In other words, I'm cute, but I'm nothing to write home about when it comes to my face. What that tells me is that there are other things factoring in when multiple women, on separate occasions, are saying that they think I look like a model.
1. Introduction
2. Dating Single Guys
What you guys don't realize, is that your looks are a mindset. Most of those people that we call 9's and 10's are really naturally 6's and 7's. And you might know some of these people. They're very average looking, and then a few years later, when you see them again, they are hot. I am one of those people. Then what is it? What can make a regular ol' guy look like a model? For one, it starts with your facial expressions. One thing that I realized was that if you take a picture of me smiling hardcore, or making some stupid expression, my face looks like a 6 or maybe 7. However, what I realized is that when I'm not posing like a retard, or smiling hardcore, my facial rating goes up to an 8 or 9.
3. Dating Fashion Mistakes
As I've said on multiple occasions, clothes and your style of dress are a HUGE factor. If you dress like a model, you start to look like a model. What does a model wear? Who knows? However, if your clothes are clearly the most expensive looking ones in a bar or party, you boost the value of your physical appearances relative to the guys around you. Women find something irresistibly hot about a guy that wears high-end clothing that fit really well. No sales rack shit, and no shit that every other guy will gladly pay for. I intentionally buy stuff that I know other men won't drop money on.
4. Singles Dating Guide
And then there are your habits. I'd say that is the biggest difference between hot people and average-looking people. Most people are average-looking because they put an average amount of effort into their appearances. Who are the hottest people? The hottest people are the ones that constantly groom themselves and are willing to spend cash to maintain themselves. I can guarantee you that the models you see on TV aren't getting their hair cut at Super Cuts.
5. Part 5
I can also guarantee you that they're constantly washing and moisturizing their faces and skin, as well as maintaining their hands and hair. They do these things religiously, and as a result, they look hotter. The more that you're willing to maintain yourself, the hotter you're going to look. This is why most young wealthy kids are usually hot. They simply put the time and effort into maintaining their bodies and appearances; they don't half-ass it like average people do.
6. Final Words
And finally, you can look a lot hotter by slimming down. A lot of girls are going for the guys that have that slim muscular look. More and more women are actually put off by the guy that looks like a bodybuilder. And guys who model just so happen to have these very slim, muscular bodies. If you consider yourself an unattractive or OK looking guy, then it's not because you're just naturally that way and there's nothing that you can do about it. You're that way because you choose to be. Most of those 9's and 10's that you see didn't just pop out looking that way. They were average-looking and became hot because they had hot mindsets. Unless you look like Tori Spelling (horse face), you are only as hot as you want to be.